# Flogger

> A flogger is a multi-tailed leather implement with a handle and many loose falls. It belongs to BDSM sensation play more than to traditional spanking.

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The implement that appears in every stock photograph of this subject and in comparatively few actual spanking scenes. It is a real and useful tool. It is also almost the opposite of a strap in how it behaves.

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## In short

- A flogger is a handle with many loose tails, called falls or lashes.
- It is a BDSM sensation implement rather than a spanking one, and behaves very differently from a strap.
- Heavy, wide falls are thuddy. Thin, stiff or knotted falls sting and can cut.
- The tips of the falls are what land on unintended areas. Aim for the centre of the buttocks and keep it well away from the lower back.

## What it means

A flogger is a handle with a bundle of loose tails attached, usually leather or suede, sometimes rubber or synthetic. The tails are called falls or lashes. There might be a dozen or there might be sixty, and the number, weight and stiffness of them decide almost everything about how it feels.

The broad rule is that mass and width give a thud, and thinness and stiffness give a sting. A heavy suede flogger with wide soft falls lands like a warm shove. A light one with narrow stiff falls bites, and the ends are what bite hardest.

This is not really a spanking implement. It belongs to the wider BDSM tradition, and the sensation it produces has little to do with what most people picture when they think about being spanked or caned. The implements that do that job are described on [implements and what each one does](https://consensualspanking.co.uk/guide/implements/).

## How it differs from a strap

This is the comparison worth having, because the two look superficially similar and behave nothing alike.

|   | Flogger | Strap |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Contact | Dozens of separate small impacts | One wide continuous impact |
| Rhythm | Continuous, figure of eight, builds slowly | Discrete strokes with pauses |
| Feel | Warm, spreading, hypnotic | Loud, definite, a slap on top of a thud |
| Suits | Long sensation play, trance, warm-up | Formal punishment, counted strokes |
| Main failure | Tips landing where they were not aimed | Wrap around the hip, or landing on its edge |
| Skill needed | Considerable. It takes months to aim well | Moderate. Mostly about length and distance |

For a discipline scene, where the point is that a defined number of strokes were earned and delivered, the flogger is the wrong shape of object. You cannot easily count it and it has no ceremony to it. That is not a criticism of the implement, only of the fit.

## In practice

If you do use one, the thing to understand is that the falls have ends and the ends travel further than you think. Aim at the centre of the buttocks and expect the tips to reach a good few inches past your target. That is how people end up striking the lower back and the kidney area, which is the one genuinely dangerous mistake available here. See [where it is safe to strike](https://consensualspanking.co.uk/guide/where-it-is-safe-to-strike/).

A few practical notes. Stand further back than feels natural and use the weight of the falls rather than force from the shoulder. Learn the figure of eight, because it keeps the tails from tangling and gives you a rhythm. Check knotted or braided tips before buying: those are a different tool altogether and they split skin. And oiled leather picks up everything, so floggers are not shared between people casually.

## Where people go wrong

Buying one first because it looks the part. It photographs beautifully and it is the least likely of all the common implements to deliver what somebody arriving at this site is imagining.

Assuming soft means safe. A heavy flogger swung hard produces deep bruising that appears on the second day, and its tips can reach places a paddle never could.

## Read next

- [Implements and what each one does](https://consensualspanking.co.uk/guide/implements/)
- [Hairbrush](https://consensualspanking.co.uk/glossary/hairbrush/)
- [Where it is safe to strike](https://consensualspanking.co.uk/guide/where-it-is-safe-to-strike/)
- [Marks and bruising](https://consensualspanking.co.uk/guide/marks-and-bruising/)

## Common questions

### What is the difference between a flogger and a strap?

A flogger has many loose tails and a strap is one solid piece of leather. The flogger spreads its force across dozens of separate points and can be swung continuously in a rhythm, producing a warm, building, hypnotic sensation. A strap delivers one wide, loud, definite impact at a time, which is why straps suit formal punishment and floggers suit long sensation play.

### Is a flogger a good first implement for spanking?

Not particularly, if spanking is what you actually want. A flogger takes real practice to aim, has a long learning curve for the wrist, and produces a sensation quite unlike a hand or a hairbrush. For a traditional spanking or a discipline scene, a hand, a hairbrush or a light strap will get you closer to what you are imagining.